BEHIND CLOSED DOORS

Falling in love with a person who has a child can be scary and overwhelming—a whole lot of serious within a short time. But take it from me—it can open your eyes and your heart in ways you could have never imagined and will be unlike any other relationship you ever will have. meeting someone who fits your every wish, someone who is overwhelmingly made for you and fits all the love story clichés, like making you forget every single other person in the world…except the one other person he can’t let you forget—his kid. I had never imagined getting involved with someone who had a child . However, as I soon learned, dating is like a game of duck-duck-goose, and   you can’t help who your heart lands on. The very first time I met his daughter, I was brimming with anxiety. It was our second date and I was a nervous wreck. My mind was racing ; I played out several different scenarios in my head. I was worried that I would meet her and fall in love and then come to find out-hi...

I decided to be celibate for  obvious  reasons that are known to most and those are as follows:   1.  I am a Christian, and I firmly believe in the Bible.  Hebrews 13:4, NKJV states: “Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge.” I know it’s considered ancient, outdated to believe in or to practice celiba cy based on the Bible, but it  is enough reason for me to practice  it  until marriage. I  rather obey the Lord's command than obeying the desires of the flesh. Im not condemning anyone, but I'm just telling the truth of what the Bible says. The truth from the Bible is what changed me from my old ways. 1 Corinthians 6:9   Have I fornicated in the past absolutely, I would be a liar and a  phony to sit here and say that  I have never engaged in any sexual activity . To some I may be a baby Christian since I am still learning the rope s  of living  righteously. I...