Conviction

When you reach Rock bottom , a point of no return . That's when you decide with conviction of course that you're done. You're finally and actually done. You can no longer endure the emotional duress and distress . You can no longer live enslaved to your emotions and heart . You can no longer live in the shadow of someone else , you can no longer be just an option . At that moment you take a stance and you refuse to budge or back down . You're not open to negotiations . You're just ready for the next chapter of your life . New beginnings, fresh start !!! You owe it to yourself . You actually deserve it ❤❤❤
This cycle is so easy to get stuck and so hard to get out of
But stand by your decision ...as long as he feels welcome he will keep coming back to interrupt your healing and moving on process. 
If you wanna be free from it, you need to be convicted in your determination to have better
If. you're wavering and conflicted, there will be an opening for him. Make him unwelcome.  In ur head, in ur heart, in ur house...

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