Old flame

Where do old flames belong? Is it possible one might be your spouse? Or should they all just be evicted from your thoughts? 

Old flame , it's safe to assume that we all have that one flame that we just can't seem to tame. 
A bond so strong , you lose all sense of reality . A feeling you wish could surpass all mortality . 
Here You are constantly wondering what could have been ? When in hindsight staying in that relationship is equivalent to the deadliest sin. You were emotionally imprisoned , enjoying conjugal visits and you didn't even know it . 
A distorted perception that you refuse to acquit.. You're not stuck on love , you're stuck on stupid ... Living a life totally diluted & clueless ... 
Finally Putting out the flame is where the trouble lies , your thought process is quite biased. I believe it's my duty to offer you some advise , your worth and happiness is your ultimate prize for putting an end to your gradual demise. 

That old flame is right where it belongs .... Snake eyes ..... All a disguise ... To create a wedge between you and the skies ..  No more cries.... You made the move of the wise 


(Inspired by a text message I received from a former student of mine) 


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