Unwarranted hate

I know I'm not the only one to experience unwarranted hate / attention from my fellow woman . 

It's unfortunate that we live in a world where another woman feels the need to kick you while you're down , beat you to your very knees to elevate herself ... 

I have heard several rumors about myself where other women that I guess are intimated/threatened by me are taking screen shots of my pictures on social media to send to each other for a good laugh . 👍👍👍 

Now they just might have valid reasons for their ill/negative feelings towards me but I'll never know those reasons because they opted to approach me like grown women to further discuss things .

They chose the most juvenile approach & my response : to each their own . 

They are a plethora of reasons why I find this appalling and I believe behaviors like this are a piss poor display of womanhood but i'd rather not get into that just yet . 

Granted I hear these things and of course I go through a series of emotions and debate over my instant reaction of confronting them but then it hits me . It does me no justice to confront a bunch of simple/narrow minded people that have made it mission to bad mouth me. Confronting them will not stop them so why bother ?  I am no saint , the younger me was very much guilty of this as well but with maturity I realized that reveling in negativity does me no justice . I  gain absolutely nothing 

Most of these women , I don't know from a can of paint , have never engaged with them but for some odd reason they are extremely enthralled with my very existence . 

I was discussing this issue with one of my best friends and this was her response :  "We are intelligent, semi successful (LoL), women of color that are focusing on bettering ourselves and our communities and if the next woman wants to continue to attempt to destroy that, let them.... Like what person has time to nit pick about your blue contacts?"  Best text message ever!!!!  ... 

I don't want to be apart of the problem , i'd rather be apart of the solution ... 

That's where the idea for my impending organization was cultivated "SISTER CIRCLE".  We plan on launching early fall of this year . The mission of this organization is for us women to find a way to celebrate and embrace kinship. The circle Represents no beginning no end ... Unconditional support & love . No judgement zone as well as have a better understanding as to why women feel the need to compete , undermine and disrespect each other . How we can overcome the hateful things we do to each other and connect on a deeper level without crossing boundaries/invading the comfort / privacy of each other... 

Have a lovely day folks !!!!