Got my groove back

The dating world has been quite generous to me . In the past , I have gone on fruitless dates to purposely kill time or merely out of boredom. 
I went on a date today and surprisingly I had a great time. No, it wasn't at some lavish restaurant, he didn't buy me expensive gifts, and even though it was a very simple first date, out of all the first dates I've ever had, this one has been the most meaningful to me. 
We met on Facebook , exchanged numbers. We had been texting for a few days before we decided to finally meet. Our texting conversations were very substantial and interesting . We  happened to click instantly . I could comfortably share information with him without feeling pressured or judged. Our first date was not nerve racking at all. We went to a coffee shop on Shrewsbury street . We sat there for hours and conversed about everything & anything that came to mind. It was very refreshing.
We conversed about a series of things . We took his car since he knew where the place was. At the end of the date,
He dropped me off at my mother's house (where he picked me up ) I thanked him for the lovely date and went inside . We will be hanging out again tomorrow after church  ❤️❤️❤️

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