Compromise

I work 2 jobs , go to school in addition I'm working on opening an online boutique that Is to launch very soon . One will ask , how do you find a healthy balance ? How do you find time for your relationship (if I had one)? , how do you manage your time efficiently ? My response : if I had a relationship the 2 days I have off from work would be devoted to my man. We can catch up, catch a movie , talk all day & night. have fun , spend some good ol quality time together. What if he has a job himself and we have conflicting schedules ? This is where it gets tricky. Both parties have to make a conscious effort to keep the relationship live as well as spicy. I would hate for my man to be distracted by the next woman because his main woman is not available. Men are honestly moved by sight & not by voice. He has to see you ,spend time with you. it's a necessity. Both parties have to come up with a plan or schedule where it's dedicated to them - date night. If the president (a man responsible for the entire country) can make time for his First Lady then your spouse should have no excuse.

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