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I struggled for so long to come to terms with my break up, whenever i found myself in a good place. He would always finagle his way back into my life. I would of course let him back in because I LOVED HIM. He was taking advantage of my love for him.  He took me on a long bumpy emotional journey in which he had no plans of accompanying me.  He knew he had no intentions of being with me in the long run.  He abused my love, mentally and emotionally scarring me. I opened up my life and heart to this man and he took it for granted. My heart couldn't take much more abuse. I realized its quite absurd for me to allow my heart to be repeatedly broken in the same spot by the same person in the same breath. All i wanted was to shower him with love but he wanted to live the life of a bachelor. I have witnessed so many women overextend themselves for THAT man. The man they believe to be their soul mate or ideal man. Have you noticed that men never settle? A man will never settle for anything less than what he is searching for.  A man has no problem shacking up , playing house with you ( HIS RIGHT NOW AKA HIS CONVENIENCE)  As soon as the woman of his dreams/ ideal woman comes along. Rest assure that, he's out that door with no hesitation or remorse. As women we tend to settle a lot in hopes of things changing or "getting better" or better yet hope that he will learn to love you as much as you love him. We cheat ourselves out of what we truly deserve. When you settle, you get done dirty - Settling is for dust, not people. Don't let your emotions cloud your judgement; the mind hears but the heart doesn't listen. Recognize the signs , i know its hard to admit that he's just not that into you . "Who someone could be, doesn't change who they are. Never fall in love with potential". "When someone loves you, you'll know. They show it in everything they do and say. When you start to question it that's the  beginning of the end".