STEP BACK

I'm very much guilty of this myself , it's extremely difficult for me to step back and allow my man to be the man because I'm such a control freak. Yes I said it , I'm an absolute control freak. I can't help It !!! As women it's imperative that we allow our men to be the man of the relationship . We should have faith and believe that they are capable of getting the job done just as well as us. They may need some guidance but let him do it . If you constantly take over everything, he'll begin to question his place/position in the relationship .., he might even ask himself ? why am i here ? that's something you DO NOT want. You don't want him to feel out of place , unwanted and under appreciated. You want him to feel exactly how you would like him to make you feel and that is secure , appreciated & wanted. Let him wear the pants in the relationship. Let his voice be heard . Don't drive him away , don't scare him off . Allow him to have a say in the relationship . Don't take away his manhood , once you kill a man's spirit , there's no way to bring it back .

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