Stance

While you're sitting there hurting your Woman. There is someone else out there Praying/Wishing they had somebody just like her. you want to find yourself in a situation where the man says, "Come Over My Family Is Here & They Want To See You"....NOT With a man that says,"Come Over I Have The House All To Myself".  As Women , we do recognize the signs but for some odd reason we believe that we are not good enough and we are also impatient to wait on God's timing to provide us with our significant others. .  Place your heart in God's hands & He will place it in the hands of a man or woman who truly deserves it.  Ask yourself, "Why do I like someone that treats me like nothing? And what have I done to deserve everything they're doing to me? My answers: fear and  Absolutely Nothing. fear brings about unnecessary feelings . For instance: you're in a situation where you know deep down that its unhealthy/toxic but you're afraid to start over/ walk away. so you have made a decision to stick it out in hopes of things getting better. In order for things to get better, a conscious effort has to be made on both parties. If they wont raise a finger then pick up all 5 fingers and wave goodbye. Most women have this notion that all men are the same. if you are one of these women then  WHY WORRY ABOUT PICKING THE RIGHT ONE? WHY ARE YOU WAITING ON MISTER RIGHT? You might as well settle for any ol' Joe. If you honestly believe that God will provide you with a partner that does not complete/compliment you then your faith is very minimal. God's timing is the best, in due time he will provide you with your mister right. A man that will love everything you hate about yourself. A man that will love you flaws and all. A man that cant go a day without thinking about you, talking  to you or seeing you. A man that will appreciate your presence in his life. I know its not easy to walk away from something that's very familiar to the unknown but in order for a new chapter to begin, the old one has to be completely closed. New doors can"t open if the old ones are still ajar. No matter what decision you make, people will judge. Its sad how the world judges you by the decisions that you make, But never does it see the options that you had to choose from.